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Dr. Lindsay, child and teen psychologist in San Diego specializing in anxiety, emotional regulation, and parent support
  • Child, teen, and parent therapy to help your family feel calmer and more connected again.

  • Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PhD) with 10+ years helping kids, teens, and parents.

  • Practical, relational therapy with tools and scripts you can use between sessions.

  • Options like walk-and-talk sessions and a friendly therapy dog for to help anxious or skeptical kids feel more comfortable.

  • In-person in Cardiff-By-The-Sea (Encinitas), San Diego, and virtual across CA, CO, and UT.

Dr. Lindsay O’Shea

No pressure. This is just a first step to share what’s going on and see if this feels like the right fit.

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Meet Dr. Lindsay O’Shea - Child, Teen, & Parent Psychologist

Most parents who find me are exhausted from handling constant meltdowns, big feelings, school issues, or shutdowns on their own. You’ve tried different strategies, read the books, maybe even started therapy before - and you’re still worried and worn down.

You want someone who understands kids and teens and actively includes you as the parent so you’re not left out of the process. Together, we will help your child feel more regulated while you feel clearer, more confident, and less alone.

I work with children (ages 6+), tweens, teens, and their parents who are dealing with things like:

  • Anxiety and constant worry

  • ADHD, focus, and impulsivity challenges

  • Big feelings, emotional outbursts, and meltdowns

  • School stress, avoidance, and homework battles

  • Perfectionism and fear of making mistakes

  • Ongoing parent-child conflict

Not sure if what you’re seeing is “serious enough?” That’s exactly what we can sort out together on your consult call.

What To Expect

Step 1

We’ll discuss your concerns, your child’s history, and what you’ve already tried.

Meet With Parents

Step 2

Understand What’s Driving The Behavior

Together, we’ll identify the patterns, stressors, and underlying factors contributing to your child’s struggles.

Step 3

Build Skills & Confidence

Your child learns practical tools while you receive guidance to support progress at home.

My Background

I’m a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PhD) with specialized training in child, teen, parent, and family therapy - especially anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, and complex family dynamics.

My work is grounded in research, but always tailored to real families with busy schedules, sibling stress, and school pressure.

Family therapy session helping parents and teens improve communication and emotional connection

Behind the scenes, I draw from attachment-based work, play therapy, CBT, DBT-informed tools, and psychodynamic therapy - all translated into plain language and practical steps for you and your family.

Learn more about how I work with clients here.

Calm and connected family after learning emotional regulation and communication skills in therapy

Making Therapy Easier for Kids Who Hate the Idea of Therapy

Many kids and teens are nervous or outright refuse therapy at first. A quick phone call before the first session can make a huge difference - they realize that I’m relatable, easy to talk to, and nothing like what they imagined therapy would be.

I also offer:

Dr. Lindsay, licensed psychologist offering child, teen, and parent therapy in San Diego

Dr. Lindsay + Arlo

Therapy Dog

Meet Arlo - my Bernedoodle who can join sessions to help anxious kids relax and open up.

Dr. Lindsay, San Diego psychologist specializing in therapy for children, teens, and parents

Walk-and-Talk Sessions

We walk the nearby Cardiff Rail Trail instead of sitting in an office, which helps kids who shut down in traditional settings.

Mention it during your consult if either option feels right for your child.

For Parents Who Feel Overwhelmed, Worried, And Worn Thin

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or unsure what to do next, that makes sense. Parenting a struggling child or teen is incredibly hard - especially when nothing you try seems to work for long.

You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need the right support.

Parent coaching session helping families manage emotional dysregulation, stress, and behavioral challenges

Next step today: Schedule your free 20‑minute parent consultation.

You share what’s going on; I’ll listen, ask thoughtful questions, and offer initial ideas. You’ll leave our call with more clarity and options.

If I’m not the right therapist for your family, I’ll provide trusted referrals so you’re not left without support.

This may be the right fit if…

  • Your child is anxious, emotionally reactive, melting down at home, or struggling at school.

  • Your teen is shut down or has pulled away, and nothing you try seems to reach them.

  • You want a therapist who actively partners with you as the parent.

  • You want practical tools and scripts for real-life moments, not just a place for your child or teen to talk once a week.

  • Your child would do best in a relaxed setting with a relatable adult, a therapy dog, or with walk-and-talk sessions instead of a stiff office.

  • You’re tired of feeling like you’re failing despite trying your best.

Click below to schedule your free 20‑minute parent consultation. I’ll respond personally with next steps and available times.

CHILD AND TEEN THERAPY + PARENT SUPPORT

Parent Support Is Built Into The Process


Lasting change doesn’t happen if parents feel blamed or left out. In parent sessions, I help you decode what your child’s behavior is communicating and practice specific responses for meltdowns, anxiety spikes, and shutdowns. The goal isn’t perfection - it’s feeling calmer, more confident, and less alone.

While therapy gives your child or teen a space to talk openly and build confidence, you'll also have opportunities for guidance, answers to questions, and practical strategies you can use at home.

Regular Parent Check-Ins. Typically every 4–8 weeks, especially early on.

Guidance For Home Support with communication, boundaries, conflict, and school concerns.

Additional Support When Needed Parents are always welcome to schedule extra sessions.

When parents feel supported, children & teens tend to make progress faster.

Questions You Might Have

If your question isn’t answered here, you’re always welcome to book a free parent consultation - no question is too big or too small, and we’ll figure out together what your child needs.

Let's Figure Out What’s Really Going On

Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, Child, Teen, and Parent Psychologist in North County, San Diego

Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, PhD
Licensed Psychologist

✓ Child Therapy
✓ Teen Therapy
✓ Parent Coaching


You don’t have to keep guessing, second-guessing, or handling this along.

Whether your child is struggling with anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, or challenging behaviors, we’ll work together to understand what’s beneath the behavior and create a path forward.

Confidential & Safe Your privacy is always respected and protected.

Evidenced-Based Strategies backed by research that work.

Whole-Family Focused We support the entire family system. ‍ ‍

Practical & Realistic Tools you can use in real life, right away.

Virtual & Convenient Coaching from the comfort of your own home.